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A Tale of things taken for granted
It's easy to take things for granted and even land in the spectrum of entitlement. I have noticed this happens when actions are consistent. For example, it's likely to take for granted someone who consistently shows up for you than anyone else. You might even be doing this subconsciously because you've become so accustomed to their love, care and loyalty. Yup, I know that sounds wrong but we do it anyway.
But I have good news for you, you can change.
You can get intentional about showing appreciation, even when you are accustomed to someone's kindness. Also, show up for them too in the way that you can. Do not let people feel that their love is being taken for granted. Show gratitude and not subservience, actions and not lip service.
There's a lot of noise in the world right now, finding your tribe can be like searching for a falsetto among bass singers. Do not get entitled to the grace and kindness you curry from your loved ones.
Stay safe and lead with love,
Claire from MANI