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No gree for anybody
Yo fam! You people have forgotten about this ba? I am here to remind you not to “gree for anybody.”
Oya wait, let me tell you something before you go and give someone a blow.
Have the Jingle Bells started jingling in your area? We all feel pressure, whether it’s the stress to meet deadlines, pressure to fit in, buy Christmas turkey, do Detty December, make money or the need to succeed generally.
Sometimes family or friends can push you in directions that don't align with your goals. Whether it's the pressure to get married, settle down, or follow a career path that isn’t you, “No gree for anybody” is your reminder to stand your ground and make choices that are true to you.
If people are pressuring you to do things their way, remember, “No gree for anybody.” Move at your own pace, prioritize what feels right for you, and don’t let FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) force you into decisions you’re not ready for.
One of the hardest parts of handling pressure is learning to say no. We often feel like we have to be everything to everyone, always available, always doing the most. But “No gree for anybody” teaches us to say no with our full chest when we need to.
The beauty of “No gree for anybody” is that it’s not just about resisting external pressure, it’s about building inner strength. It’s a mindset that says, “I’ve got this.” When pressure builds, instead of panicking or folding, you remind yourself that you are in control of how you respond.
Life will always have its demands, and people will always have expectations, but the way you handle them is up to you. Don’t fold. Don’t compromise on your peace. Stand firm, and handle pressure like the boss you are. No gree for anybody!
Nene from MANI