Eko & Emotional Survival

Lagos is one city I know where you can live like three different lives in one day.

One minute, you’re sipping iced coffee at brunch in Lekki, feeling like life is good, the next minute, you’re in Oshodi, dragging your last ₦500 with a conductor who swears he gave you your change. Lagos doesn’t just test your patience; it tests your emotional balance.

Because in this city, soft life and survival life coexist. You can post “Outside looking like Dubai” in the morning and still find yourself muttering “God abeg” in traffic by evening. And somehow, you’re expected to stay sane through it all.

Lagos doesn’t just stretch your wallet(if you allow it); it stretches your emotions too. Every day is an unpredictable mix of joy, stress, laughter, and small madness.

But here’s the thing: Lagos will always be Lagos. The chaos might not change, but you can learn to protect your peace in the middle of it.

Because emotional survival isn’t just about escaping stress; it’s about not letting stress swallow you whole.

Set boundaries. You can’t attend every wahala you’re invited to. Mute the noise, literally and mentally. Find small joys.

Don’t compare your timeline. Some people are soft-living on borrowed money. Focus on your lane, abeg.

Rest, even in the rush. You’re not weak for slowing down. Even Lagosians need time off from Lagos.

So yeah, go to that brunch. Do Your Hustle. Take your selfies. Fight your conductor if you must (with love). But above all, guard your mind.

Because Lagos might be “mad”, but you don’t have to be.

- Nene From MANI